"Batal Je Niat Nak Kahwin Jika Rasa Jadi Hamba" - Pesanan Wanita Ini Buat Ramai Sentap

Bila dah ada niat nak kawin, ask yourself :1) Sbb apa nk kawin? Pressure orang sekeliling/sbb umur/mmg dah ready?2) Sbb apa pilih si dia? Rupa/harta/education?3) Dah ready nak dgr ckp suami? If you still rasa isteri ni terpaksa jd hamba suami, cancel jelah niat nk kawin tu

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

Selami jiwa tu betul ke dah ready nk kawin? Jgn kawin sbb org lain dah kawin. Jgn sbb umur terus rasa terpaksa kawin. Don’t rush things. Just don’t. It’s a lifetime commitment for you and your partner. Tanya balik, betul2 sanggup ke nk hidup dgn dia 30-40 tahun?

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

Nak kawin sbb rupa dgn harta je tak cukup sis. It’s all about manners. Bukan perangai dia je, perangai kau sekali. Boleh tolerate tak psl tmpt tinggal after kawin? Bila ada masalah sama2 cari solution ke lepas tangan? Cinta je mmg tak cukup

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

It doesn’t matter if you have the highest paid job in the world, you still need to respect your husband. In this context, dgr ckp dia selagi tak melanggar syarak dan memudaratkanKalau suami tetiba bangun 3pagi nak teh ais, you have to do it. Buat jelah even kau membebel masa tu

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

In your point of view, what is marriage? It’s not about yourself. You’re both a team. Any decisions making are related to each other. Kalau benda kecik pun boleh gaduh, apatah lg benda besar. Kalau dulu gaduh nk mkn kt mana, skrg gaduh nk masak apa kt rumah

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

After kawin there are a lot of small things yg kena consider. Psl baju, breakfast, sape nak basuh bilik air etc etc. If you still have your ego with you, semua benda ni akan buat kau stress instead of being considerate to help each other and take it positively.

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

Cuba rasa susah dgn your partner. Certain org tak boleh terima kalau ada dlm kesusahan. How do you tolerate difficulties? Sanggup ke mkn megi sbb nak jimat? Sanggup bersusah kumpul duit hantaran? Semua ni penting to make sure you don’t leave each other’s side if tgh susah

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

If dlm kepala otak rasa kawin ni mcm dlm penjara, jadi bibik, muhasabah diri balik betul2 ready ke nk jadi isteri? Semua benda ni akan mudah if you take it positively. Ni kawin pun belum dah fikir yg negatif je. Tau bukan senang nak cari life partner tp balik kt point no 2 td la

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

Marriage is a big step. Your status will change for the rest of your life. You will know when you’re ready — ask Allah SWT for guidance. InsyaAllah you will found someone who will accept your flaws, being considerate, loves you so much

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 19, 2019

I’m no expert sbb baru je kawin but I’m saying all these bcs I just realized that marriage is more than what you think of. So you have to be ready to give and take dlm semua hal k

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 21, 2019

One more thing, if belum ready nak kawin jgn gatal2 nk terus kawin. Takut nanti after kawin tak boleh terima la apa la pastu menyusahkan org lain. Partner dah ready tp ko belum ready. Buat naya anak org je. Membazir utk kenduri pun satu hal. Tolongla jgn menyusahkan org

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 22, 2019

Yg teh ais tu analogy je. Nak tukar jd indomee pun boleh. Nk ckpnya kt sini taat dgn suami la. You are lucky if you find someone yg akan buat sndri teh ais tu and tak kacau kau tidur. Mostly lelaki takkan susahkan wife dia. Silap2 dia buatkan skali teh ais siap ikat tepi utk kau

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 23, 2019

Dah kata dah awal2 tu takde sesiapa yg jd hamba kt sini. Ready dengar ckp suami tu maknanya taat. Sedar yg lepasni kena utamakan suami dlm segala hal so that suami kita pun akan layan kita umpama bidadari la. Takdenya tetiba suami nk jd diktator lepas kita layan dia bebaik

— aliawho (@aliazamani_) January 23, 2019